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Custody schedules, compared

The patterns co-parents use most, with the numbers worked out: how many nights a year at each home, how often children change homes, and the longest time away from each parent.

Custody schedules compared
ScheduleSplitNights a year (A / B)Changeovers / 2 weeksLongest stretch
Alternating weeks (7-7)A full week at each home, changing over on the same day every week.50/50183 / 18227 nights
2-2-3 scheduleTwo days, two days, three days, then the pattern flips the next week.50/50183 / 18263 nights
2-2-5-5 scheduleEach home has the same two weekdays every week; weekends alternate into five-day blocks.50/50183 / 18245 nights
3-4-4-3 scheduleThree nights then four at one home, four then three at the other.50/50183 / 18244 nights
Alternating weeks with a midweek overnightA week at each home, with one overnight at the other home in the middle of each week.50/50183 / 18264 nights
4-3 scheduleFour nights at one home and three at the other, the same every week.57/43209 / 15644 nights
5-2 schedule (school week and weekends)School nights at one home and Saturday and Sunday nights at the other, every week.71/29261 / 10445 nights
Every other weekend plus a midweek overnightAlternate weekends (Friday to Sunday) at the second home, plus one weekday overnight there every week.64/36235 / 13066 nights
Extended every other weekendAlternate long weekends, Thursday to Sunday nights, at the second home.71/29261 / 104210 nights
Every other weekendMostly at one home, with alternate weekends (Friday to Sunday nights) at the other.79/21287 / 78211 nights

Nights are counted over 365 nights of the regular pattern, before holidays. Child-support rules and parenting agreements differ by place; this is general information, not legal advice.

TaskFamily runs any of these schedules (or one you paint yourself): each home sees the right tasks, swaps need approval, and a calm brief arrives the night before every handoff.

Free for one household. The Co-parent plan covers both homes for $19 a month - $9.50 each when two parents split it.

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