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As-needed chores for 12-year-olds

As-needed chores at 12: 4 jobs, jobs done when the moment comes up, that a 12-year-old can do (1 alone) or start learning, about 100 minutes in all.

As-needed chores at 12

As-needed chores at 12
JobStageTimeHow oftenPoints
Pack their own bag for a tripOn their own20 minAs needed15
Change a light bulbWith you5 minAs needed5
Iron clothesWith you15 minAs needed10
Look after a younger sibling for a whileWith you60 minAs needed20

On their own means most children this age manage it alone; With you means they start it with a grown-up alongside. Points are on a 5-for-a-small-job scale.

Start together at 12

  • Iron clothes (alone from about 15)
  • Change a light bulb (alone from about 13)
  • Look after a younger sibling for a while (alone from about 14)

Most 12-year-olds can do alone

  • Pack their own bag for a trip

How much time it adds up to

Every job on this page
100 minutes
Only the ones they do alone
20 minutes
Suggested load at this age
20 to 30 minutes a day

⚠️ Safety notes for these jobs: Iron clothes: Irons get hot enough to burn. Teach them to stand the iron upright, keep the cord out of the way and switch it off straight after. Change a light bulb: Switch off first and let the old bulb cool. Use a sturdy step stool, never a chair on wheels, and leave ladders and ceiling fittings to a grown-up. Look after a younger sibling for a while: Start with short stretches while you are nearby. Make sure they know how to reach you, your address and what to do in an emergency. Local rules on leaving children in a teen's care vary.

A day of jobs at 12

Daily jobs
3 or 4
Weekly jobs
2
Time
20 to 30 minutes a day

What these jobs teach

  • care with heat
  • looking presentable
  • patience
  • working from a list
  • thinking ahead
  • independence
  • basic home maintenance
  • safety with electricity

In TaskFamily these become jobs on your 12-year-old's own screen, with points, repeat days and the Trust Ladder to move each job from "check every time" to spot checks.

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Ages and times are typical, not rules: children develop at different speeds, and you know yours best. The chore library is TaskFamily's own. The guide text is drafted with AI from these numbers and checked automatically before it is published.

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