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Daily chores for 4-year-olds

Daily chores at 4: 12 jobs, jobs done every day, that a 4-year-old can do (3 alone) or start learning, about 45 minutes in all.

Daily chores at 4

Daily chores at 4
JobStageTimeHow oftenPoints
Brush their teeth morning and nightWith you4 minDaily5
Put dirty clothes in the hamperOn their own1 minDaily5
Put toys awayOn their own5 minDaily5
Feed the petWith you5 minDaily5
Get dressed by themselvesWith you5 minDaily5
Hang up their coat and put shoes awayOn their own2 minDaily5
Refill the pet's water bowlWith you2 minDaily5
Wash fruit and vegetablesWith you5 minDaily5
Clear the table after mealsWith you5 minDaily5
Make the bedWith you3 minDaily5
Set the tableWith you5 minDaily5
Wipe the table and countersWith you3 minDaily5

On their own means most children this age manage it alone; With you means they start it with a grown-up alongside. Points are on a 5-for-a-small-job scale.

Start together at 4

  • Make the bed (alone from about 6)
  • Wash fruit and vegetables (alone from about 5)
  • Set the table (alone from about 7)
  • Clear the table after meals (alone from about 6)
  • Wipe the table and counters (alone from about 6)
  • Refill the pet's water bowl (alone from about 5)
  • Feed the pet (alone from about 6)
  • Brush their teeth morning and night (alone from about 7)
  • Get dressed by themselves (alone from about 5)

Most 4-year-olds can do alone

  • Put toys away
  • Hang up their coat and put shoes away
  • Put dirty clothes in the hamper

How much time it adds up to

Every job on this page
45 minutes
Only the ones they do alone
8 minutes
Suggested load at this age
10 to 15 minutes a day

⚠️ Safety notes for these jobs: Feed the pet: A grown-up measures at first: overfeeding is easy. Keep human food the pet must not eat out of the way. Brush their teeth morning and night: Most children need a grown-up to check or finish brushing until around 7 or 8. Ask your dentist what fits your child.

A day of jobs at 4

Daily jobs
2 or 3 short jobs
Weekly jobs
1, done with you
Time
10 to 15 minutes a day

What these jobs teach

  • finishing what you start
  • sorting by type
  • looking after belongings
  • a coming-home routine
  • knowing where things live
  • a morning routine
  • pride in their space
  • fine motor skills

In TaskFamily these become jobs on your 4-year-old's own screen, with points, repeat days and the Trust Ladder to move each job from "check every time" to spot checks.

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Keep reading

Ages and times are typical, not rules: children develop at different speeds, and you know yours best. The chore library is TaskFamily's own. The guide text is drafted with AI from these numbers and checked automatically before it is published.

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