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Kitchen chores for 4-year-olds

Kitchen & meals jobs at 4: 0 most children do alone and 5 to start with you, with the time, how often and points for each.

Kitchen chores at 4

Kitchen chores at 4
JobStageTimeHow oftenPoints
Wash fruit and vegetablesWith you5 minDaily5
Clear the table after mealsWith you5 minDaily5
Put groceries awayWith you10 minWeekly10
Set the tableWith you5 minDaily5
Wipe the table and countersWith you3 minDaily5

On their own means most children this age manage it alone; With you means they start it with a grown-up alongside. Points are on a 5-for-a-small-job scale.

Start together at 4

  • Wash fruit and vegetables (alone from about 5)
  • Set the table (alone from about 7)
  • Clear the table after meals (alone from about 6)
  • Wipe the table and counters (alone from about 6)
  • Put groceries away (alone from about 8)

Coming next in this area

  • Unload the dishwasher (starts with help around 5)
  • Make their own breakfast (starts with help around 6)
  • Sweep the kitchen floor (starts with help around 6)

A day of jobs at 4

Daily jobs
2 or 3 short jobs
Weekly jobs
1, done with you
Time
10 to 15 minutes a day

What these jobs teach

  • kitchen hygiene
  • curiosity about food
  • helping with meals
  • counting and matching
  • helping the family
  • table manners
  • everyone helps after a meal
  • carrying things carefully

In TaskFamily these become jobs on your 4-year-old's own screen, with points, repeat days and the Trust Ladder to move each job from "check every time" to spot checks.

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Keep reading

Ages and times are typical, not rules: children develop at different speeds, and you know yours best. The chore library is TaskFamily's own. The guide text is drafted with AI from these numbers and checked automatically before it is published.

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