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Pack their own bag for a trip at 9: practising with less help

At 9, most children can pack their own bag for a trip with less help each week: about 20 minutes, as needed, alone around 11.

Pack their own bag for a trip at 9, at a glance

Stage
Practising, with less help
What they do
doing most of the job themselves with you nearby to answer questions and finish off the hard part
How you check
check most times, and fix one thing at a time rather than everything
Time it takes
about 20 minutes
How often
As needed
Points
15 (5 for a small job, 10 for a bigger one)
Starts with help
around 7
Alone
around 11

Other looking after themselves jobs at 9

  • Brush their teeth morning and night (alone)
  • Get dressed by themselves (alone)
  • Lay out clothes the night before (alone)
  • Keep track of their own homework (with help)
  • Wake up with their own alarm (with help)

A day of jobs at 9

Daily jobs
3 or 4
Weekly jobs
1 or 2
Time
15 to 20 minutes a day

In TaskFamily, "Pack their own bag for a trip" becomes a job on your 9-year-old's own screen. The Trust Ladder moves each job from "check every time" to spot checks to full trust as they prove they can do it.

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Ages and times are typical, not rules: children develop at different speeds, and you know yours best. The chore library is TaskFamily's own. The guide text is drafted with AI from these numbers and checked automatically before it is published.

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