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Children's birthdays custody schedule for two homes

How co-parents share Children's birthdays: the common arrangements, and who has it when you alternate by odd and even years.

Common ways to share it

  • A few hours with the other parent on the birthday itself, whatever the schedule says
  • Alternate the birthday every year
  • Two celebrations, one in each home, on or near the day
  • One joint party for the child, with separate family celebrations

When it is

  • Children's birthdays: each child's birthday (dates differ by child).
  • Alternating by odd and even years: Home A in even years, Home B in odd years.

In TaskFamily, Children's birthdays becomes an exception that overrides the usual two-homes schedule for those days, so both homes and the children see where they will be. Swap requests need the other parent's approval and go into the record.

Free for one household. The Co-parent plan covers both homes for $19 a month - $9.50 each when two parents split it.

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Dates are computed from the holiday rules (US federal holiday rules, the Western Easter date, fixed dates). This is general information, not legal advice: your parenting plan or court order decides. The guide text is drafted with AI from these numbers and checked automatically before it is published.

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