Computer rules for 13-year-olds
How to set computer rules for a 13-year-old: what official guidance says at 13, house rules that fit the device, and when to switch off.
Computer rules that work at 13
- Keep it in a shared room for younger children
- Separate homework time from play time
- Use a child account with the settings you choose
- Take a break every hour for movement or a snack
- Close it down by the screens-off time
At this age: Agree what is homework and what is play, and take breaks.
What official guidance says
- American Academy of Pediatrics, Media Use in School-Aged Children and Adolescents (2016): for children 6 and older, place consistent limits on the time spent using media and the types of media, and make sure media does not take the place of adequate sleep, physical activity and other behaviors essential to health.
- American Academy of Pediatrics: designate media-free times together, such as dinner or driving, and media-free locations at home, such as bedrooms; the AAP offers a free Family Media Plan to write the family rules down.
- US Federal Trade Commission, COPPA rule: online services aimed at children under 13 must get a parent's verifiable consent before collecting personal information, which is why many apps and social networks set 13 as their minimum age.
Sleep at 13
- Sleep
- 8-10 hours a day
- Asleep by, for a 7am wake-up
- 10pm
- Screens off by (an hour before)
- 9pm
Sleep: American Academy of Sleep Medicine consensus, endorsed by the American Academy of Pediatrics (2016).
House rules for every screen at this age
- Agree the rules together and revisit them every few months
- Phones charge outside the bedroom overnight
- Screen-free meals and family time stay non-negotiable
- Homework and sleep come first; they manage the rest
- Talk about what they see online, not only how long they spend
TaskFamily's suggestions, not official guidance.
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Guidance is quoted only from the named official sources; the device rules are TaskFamily's suggestions, not official guidance. The guide text is drafted with AI from these numbers and checked automatically before it is published.