Online videos rules for 4-year-olds
How to set online videos rules for a 4-year-old: what official guidance says at 4, house rules that fit the device, and when to switch off.
Online videos rules that work at 4
- Choose the channel or playlist together, and turn autoplay off
- Watch in a shared room
- Agree how many videos before you start
- Talk about what they watched afterwards
- Keep it out of the hour before bed
At this age: Pick a short playlist and sit with them.
What official guidance says
- World Health Organization, guidelines for children under 5 (2019): sedentary screen time of no more than 1 hour a day for 2 to 4-year-olds; less is better.
- American Academy of Pediatrics, Media and Young Minds (2016): for 2 to 5-year-olds, limit screen use to 1 hour a day of high-quality programs, and watch with them to help them understand what they see.
- American Academy of Pediatrics: designate media-free times together, such as dinner or driving, and media-free locations at home, such as bedrooms; the AAP offers a free Family Media Plan to write the family rules down.
Sleep at 4
- Sleep
- 10-13 hours a day, including naps
- Asleep by, for a 7am wake-up
- 8:30pm
- Screens off by (an hour before)
- 7:30pm
Sleep: American Academy of Sleep Medicine consensus, endorsed by the American Academy of Pediatrics (2016).
House rules for every screen at this age
- Watch together and talk about what you see
- Choose the show before the screen goes on, and decide how many episodes
- No screens at meals or in the bedroom
- A timer they can see, with a five-minute warning
- Screens off at least an hour before bed
TaskFamily's suggestions, not official guidance.
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Guidance is quoted only from the named official sources; the device rules are TaskFamily's suggestions, not official guidance. The guide text is drafted with AI from these numbers and checked automatically before it is published.